In over a dozen years as a stress consultant, one of the most pervasive and destructive mental tendencies I've seen is that of focusing on what we want instead of what we have. It doesn't seem to make any difference how much we have; we just keep expanding our list of desires, which guarantees we will remain dissatisfied. The mind-set that says "I'll be happy when this desire is fulfilled" is the same mind-set that will repeat itself once that desire is met.
Tuesday, 8 May 2018
Think of What You Have
In over a dozen years as a stress consultant, one of the most pervasive and destructive mental tendencies I've seen is that of focusing on what we want instead of what we have. It doesn't seem to make any difference how much we have; we just keep expanding our list of desires, which guarantees we will remain dissatisfied. The mind-set that says "I'll be happy when this desire is fulfilled" is the same mind-set that will repeat itself once that desire is met.
Should I Tithe?
Proverbs 3:9 Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the firstfruits of all your produce
Let's talk about tithing! In my view, tithing is very important. God gives us Jesus, he gives us life, he transforms us, and makes us new in Jesus. He sends His Holy Spirit to live in us and make us holy.
Beijing congratulates Putin on inauguration
China extends sincere congratulations on Vladimir Putin's inauguration as Russian president, Foreign Ministry spokesman Geng Shuang said at a regular news conference on Monday.
The Chinese side believes that under the leadership of President Putin, Russia will keep making achievements in its nation building and social and economic development, Geng said.
'Brain-dead' boy wakes up a day before doctors set to pull life support:
NEW YORK: A 13-year-old boy who had been declared brain dead by doctors in Alabama regained consciousness the day before doctors were scheduled to pull his life support, CBS News reported on Monday (May 7).
Trenton McKinley had suffered severe brain trauma after a small utility trailer he was playing in flipped over and hit his head two months ago.
Nine Steps for Solving Any Problem
For any problem, no matter how big or complex it may be, there is a solution. Use these nine steps to find it!
What are the similarities in problem solving, decision making, and goal achievement?
Actually, they're alike in many ways. A decision that must be made is little more than a problem awaiting a solution.
Monday, 7 May 2018
Just Because...
Just because you go to church doesn’t mean you are a Christian--you have to have Jesus in your heart. 1Jn:5:11-12
Just because the message of the church is about grace does not mean that they should not teach about the consequences of sin and the reality of hell. The Bible teaches these thing and we should do it in the same measure.
Just because the church’s message is about eternal life does not mean that they should not preach on eternal death. The Bible does.
ZIMBABWE Gold panners kill colleague in fight over talented pr0stitute
THREE machete-wielding artisanal miners reportedly killed their colleague in a brawl over a well experienced and talented se_x worker in Mazowe on Friday.
Mashonaland Central acting police spokesperson, Assistant Inspector Petros Masikati confirmed the incident, but could not give more details.
SOUTH AFRICA Dad accused of killing baby with pickaxe in jealous rage
A six-month-old baby was brutally killed with a pickaxe‚ allegedly by her own father‚ after he accused her mother of cheating.
Baby Bonolo’s grieving mother‚ Modjadji Marikhela‚ 19‚ vowed to avenge her daughter’s death if her former partner was released on bail.
“I’m heartbroken and I don’t know what an innocent baby did to him to be slaughtered like an animal. I want him to die. I don’t want to see him again because if he comes I’m going to mobilise the community to kill him‚” she said.
Sunday, 6 May 2018
Stoke City Is Relegated From The English Premier League Tears And Pain
Paul Lambert’s managed Stoke City are now relegated from the English Premier League after losing at home on Saturday to Roy Hodgson’s Crystal Palace 1-2.
Both Coach and players were shattered as Palace ended their dream of escaping from relegation.
Coach Lambert who took charge of the team in January said it was hard summing up his feelings as the Potters went down at home.
Friday, 27 April 2018
Nigeria now exports more than it imports – Minister
Nigeria’s Minister of Agriculture and Rural Development, Mr Audu Ogbe, says the country has transformed from import-based to highly export-driven nation due to the strides made in agriculture.
Ogbe stated this while briefing state House correspondents on the outcome of the National Economic Council (NEC) meeting presided over by Vice President Yemi Osinbajo.
10 Things You Should Know about the Love of God
1. God’s love is incomprehensible.
No human mind can comprehend God. We cannot define God. We cannot provide a comprehensive account of who he is. He "dwells in unapproachable light" (1 Tim. 6:16). If God is incomprehensible, then so is his love. While we may and must speak truthfully about his love, we can never fathom it, because it is divine love, as different from our love as his being is different from our being.
Friday, 20 October 2017
CBN orders banks to keep database of fraudulent customers
The Central Bank of Nigeria ( CBN ) on Thursday directed banks to establish a database of their customers identified through their Bank Verification Numbers (BVNs) to be involved in confirmed fraudulent activities.
The directive is contained in the Regulatory Framework for Bank Verification Number (BVN) Operation and Watch-list for Nigerian Financial System released by the CBN. The implementation of the framework is with immediate effect.
Thursday, 19 October 2017
Bizarre religions around the world that will leave you intrigued
Religion can be understood largely as an attempt of a group of individuals to understand Existential questions based on a set of cultural practices specific to that group. Sometimes these practices may not seemingly conform to our normal expectations from a 'religion'. But they succeed in fulfilling what is expected of a religion- uniting people because of the belief that they may share. However, there is one condition that all religions must comply. They must not hinder the lives of others.
Some of world's unusual religions are described below.
All Police Commands Will Be Involved in Anambra Guber Poll, Says IG
The IG explained that there are great expectations in the area of security, which would also lead to adequate security and mobilisation of personnel.
Wednesday, 18 October 2017
Do You Chew Your Food 32 Times? If Not, Then You Must
Incomplete food chewing makes you vulnerable to microbial infections, gums diseases and mouth cavities, according to a latest study.
University of Manchester and National Institute of Health in the US scientists have found out that when the food is properly broken down into smaller particles, it activates the immune cells and instigate the Helper T cells production. Proper mastication not only improves digestion, but also act as a barrier against the infectious germs.
Eight brothers allegedly strangle their father in Kano
Two brothers, who allegedly strangled their father, to be remanded in prison until November, a Kano Chief Magistrates’ Court ruled on Wednesday.
They were said to have conspired with six other brothers who are now at large.
The duo of Rabiu Adamu, 27, and Auwal Adamu, 26, had strangled their 55-year-old father, Adamu Gamji, in Sumaila Local Government Area of Kano, the prosecution said.
The accused pleaded not guilty.
Pope expresses sorrow over Somalia carnage
Pope Francis
Pope Francis on Wednesday expressed his sorrow over the worst bombing in Somalia’s history, a deadly truck attack that left at least 276 people dead in Mogadishu at the weekend.
“I pray for the conversion of the violent and send my encouragement to all those who, in the face of enormous difficulties, work for peace in this martyred country,” Francis said at his weekly audience in St Peter’s square.
“I pray for the conversion of the violent and send my encouragement to all those who, in the face of enormous difficulties, work for peace in this martyred country,” Francis said at his weekly audience in St Peter’s square.
Man in court for seducing married woman
The Police on Wednesday arraigned one Ibrahim Bawa in a Minna Magistrates’ Court for allegedly seducing a married woman.
Bawa is standing trial on a count charge of seducing a married woman, punishable under Section 389 of the Penal Code .
Bawa is standing trial on a count charge of seducing a married woman, punishable under Section 389 of the Penal Code .
Sunday, 7 May 2017
Buhari to receive freed 82 Chibok girls exchanged for Boko haram suspects
President Muhammadu Buhari is billed to receive the 82 Chibok girls released on Saturday by the Islamic sect, Boko Haram.
A statement on Saturday night by the Senior Special Assistant on media and publicity, Garba Shehu, said that the girls were exchanged for some Boko Haram suspects in custody.
It reads “The President is pleased announce that negotiations to release more of the Chibok Girls have born fruit with the release of 82 more Girls today.
It reads “The President is pleased announce that negotiations to release more of the Chibok Girls have born fruit with the release of 82 more Girls today.
Tuesday, 2 May 2017
Mobile telecommunications firm, MTN Nigeria, has sacked about 280 of its workers across its different operational units.
Our correspondent gathered that the affected workers left the company on Friday, having embraced the firm’s offer of voluntary disengagement, which was offered to employees who had served for a minimum of five years.
Our correspondent gathered that the affected workers left the company on Friday, having embraced the firm’s offer of voluntary disengagement, which was offered to employees who had served for a minimum of five years.
Sunday, 30 April 2017
Wednesday, 19 April 2017
Wednesday, 12 April 2017
Reps attack El-Rufai as Dogara unveils his pay
House to governor: face your problems
How much does a member of the House of Representatives earn?
Nigerians got a rare insight into the package – for long a well kept secret – yesterday, with House Speaker Yakubu Dogara tendering a copy of his November 2016 pay slip.
The net pay is N346,577.87, according to the little document.
The basic salary is N206,425.83. There are constituency allowance (N175,461.96); and recess (N20,642.58).
Tuesday, 11 April 2017
Tank collector buys military vehicle on Ebay ,finds £2million gold bars hidden in the fuel compartment
An army tank fanatic got a new model in a £30,000 trade-in — and found more than £2million of gold bullion hidden in the fuel tank.
Nick Mead, 55, discovered the five gold bars in the Russian T54/69 while restoring it to add to his collection of 150 military vehicles.He and mechanic Todd Chamberlain were filming themselves prising open the diesel tank in case they found munitions and needed to show it to bomb disposal crews.
Monday, 10 April 2017
Killing you serves no purpose, Obasanjo replies Bamaiyi
Former President Olusegun Obasanjo yesterday replied to former Chief of Army Staff, Maj.-Gen. Ishaya Bamaiyi’s allegation that he (Obasanjo) wanted to kill him.
Obasanjo said he had no plan to kill Gen. Bamaiyi, adding that his administration only asked him to answer questions on people he allegedly killed.
Thursday, 6 April 2017
I Almost Jumped Into A Well To Commit Suicide but Micheal Bolton's Song Saved Me-Mr. Ibu
Nollywood Actor, John Okafor, popularly known as Mr. Ibu has narrated how he almost jumped into a well to commit suicide . According to him, several years ago the man he was living with at Ajao Estate area of Oshodi, Lagos, Nigeria threw him out of his house with his loads.
Mr. Ibu, who was a guest on Brilla FM with Murphy Ijemba, said after his friend threw him out, he had already opened a well to jump inside when he heard the song from Michael Bolton being played from a neighbour’s house.
IMF’s Naira revival pill rejected
•Fund: currency overvalued by 20%
If the Federal Government heeds the International Monetary Fund’s (IMF’s) advice, it will collapse the exchange rates—official N306/$ and Bureau De Change N360/$.
To the IMF, the Naira is overvalued by 10 to 20 per cent.
The IMF mission chief for Nigeria, Gene Leon, said that the Naira overvaluation “is somewhere to the tune of 10 to 20 per cent and that the country’s 2017 projections for non-oil revenues are more optimistic than the Fund’s.
Thursday, 23 March 2017
FG pledges to refund expenditure on federal roads to state govts
Mr Babatunde Fashola, the Minister of Power, Works and Housing on Thursday pledged the commitment of the Federal Government to refund expenditure on the execution of federal roads to state governments.
Fashola, who stated this in Ado-Ekiti during a courtesy visit to Gov. Ayodele Fayose of Ekiti state, said the planned refund followed request by several state governments.
Monday, 20 March 2017
Doctor jumps into Lagos lagoon
•Police lead rescue operation
In what appeared to be a suicide, a medical doctor, Allwell Oji, jumped into the Lagos lagoon yesterday. The incident happened at 4:45pm on Third Mainland Bridge when Oji, 35, was on his way to Victoria Island where he was going to attend a Medical and Dental Council of Nigeria (MDCN) meeting.
Sunday, 19 March 2017
Saturday, 18 March 2017
Xenophobic Attacks: Nigeria, South Africa agree terms
Minister of Foreign Affairs, Geoffrey Onyeama, in a joint briefing with the Minister of Interior, Lt-Gen. Abdulrahman Danbazau (rtd) at the Foreign Affairs Ministry in Abuja yesterday described the initiative as the concrete outcome of their meeting with the South African government.
Sunday, 26 February 2017
Only an Igbo Man Can Rescue Nigeria from Recession - Primate Ayodele Talks on the Nation's Economic Woes
He advocated that the head of Nigeria’s Economic Team and the Minister of Finance should be an Igbo, and warned that failure to do this would see the country go in circles.
Saturday, 18 February 2017
Friday, 17 February 2017
26 Things He Does That Make You Think He Likes You, But Really Mean Nothing
There’s a difference between someone being mildly interested in you and someone actually having feelings for you.
Needless to say, that leaves a lot of room for interpretation. And by “room for interpretation,” I mean “room for us to overanalyze dumb stuff that literally means nothing at all.” The thing is, someone who really has feelings for you is going to do all of the things that a person who is mildly interested in you does.
My wife is cheating on me, says police officer
A 37-year-old police officer, Adoyi Okiwori, yesterday approached a Lagos Island Customary Court seeking the dissolution of his three-year-old marriage over alleged infidelity of his wife.
Adoyi told the court that he met his wife, Grace, in Abuja while they were in the university and she got pregnant and gave birth to their five-year-old son, Divine.
He said they later got married on December 27, 2014, adding that the union was blissful until 2016 when he started noticing the strange behaviour of his wife.
Friday, 27 January 2017
Don't marry anyone who puts password on their phone -Counselor warns
If you are single and thinking of marriage then please don't marry anyone who puts passwords or locks on their phone as a form of security to prevent you from accessing their conversations.
They can surely do this for other security measures, but you must not be the reason for this action. I am very much aware that passwords or lock are for security purposes but one thing I don't approve of is when a spouse becomes the reason for that security measure.
How we got Turkish School kidnap suspects, by police
•One of the suspects holding the cash allegedly retrieved from him...yesterday and The other suspects being paraded ...yesterday PHOTO: POLICE
The Police have arrested four persons over the kidnap of some teachers and pupils of the Nigeria Tulip College (NTIC) in Isheri north of Ogun State on January 23.
The suspects are Bekewei Agbojule, aka Prince Yellow, Are Philip Joel Kakadu, aka “General Kakadu,” a militant leader, Romeo Council, aka Raw and Totki Okoda.
Monday, 16 January 2017
Ibinabo recounts pains of surgery, failed marriage
It was a different kind of celebration for embattled actress, Ibinabo Fiberesima who clocked 44 years last Friday.The mother of three, at her birthday gig in Lekki Phase one, hosted her celebrity colleagues, the media and officials of Heritage Bank, sponsors of her annual scholarship scheme tagged ‘Go To School’, meant for kids under the age of 10.
Saturday, 14 January 2017
It Was Strong Temptation That Made Me Rape My Wife's Niece - Married Father Of One Pleads
34-year old Kingsley Agbini, has developed stroke following accusations of raping his wife’s niece, Comfort, in their house at Agbarho Community in Ughelli North LGA of Delta State.
According to Dailypost, Agbini who is still recovering from the stroke, admitted to the crime revealing that he developed stroke after he raped the young girl, Comfort on 12 December, 2016, and his wife was told.
He said,
He said,
Southern Kaduna Crisis: Nigeria getting to point where human lives do not mean anything – Abdulsalami Abubakar
Former Military head of state, General Abubakar Abdulsalam (Rtd), the Sultan of Sokoto, Muhammadu Sa’ad Abubakar, Catholic Bishops of Abuja and Sokoto state, John Cardinal Onaiyekan, Bishop Matthew Hassan Kukah, held a closed door meeting with Kaduna State governor, Mallam Nasir El-Rufai over killings in Southern Kaduna.
The elder statesman and religious leaders said it was part of efforts by the National Peace Committee to tackle the incessant attacks in the Southern part of Kaduna State.
Speaking shortly after the meeting with governor El-Rufai, General Abdulsalam said, “We are here due to the recent happenings in Southern Kaduna.
Friday, 13 January 2017
Victoria Beckham Regrets Getting A B*ob Job, Says It Was A Sign Of Insecurity
Over the two decades that have seen her shoot from obscurity to superstardom, Victoria Beckham's countless sartorial choices have been well documented.
But one of her biggest regrets when it comes to aesthetics - possibly more than any possible fashion faux - was her much talked-about move to enhance her bosom.
Woman caught trying to sneak her boyfriend out of jail in a suitcase
Antonieta Robles Saouda, 25, was arrested after she tried to break her boyfriend out of prison by stuffing him into a hot pink suitcase and wheeling him out, according to Central European News agency.
She went to the Jose Antonio Anzoategui prison in Venezuela with her 6-year-old daughter to visit her lover, Ibrain Jose Vargas Garcia, with a plan to leave the facility as a happy family.
Wednesday, 11 January 2017
Mikel gets N1.1b severance fee from Chelsea
Super Eagles captain, John Mikel Obi despite getting a free transfer to China is reported to have also received a severance fee worth £2m (about N1.1b) from Chelsea, which is the total pay package of the last six months of his deal with the London side.
The report was coming on the heels of Mikel’s transfer to the Chinese league where he is to earn a whooping N78m weekly according to owngoal.com
Monkey caught trying to have sex with deer
But exceptional cases are known to occur, chiefly in domesticated and captive animals, scientists reported in the journal Primates.
In their study — only the second on the phenomenon — a Japanese macaque or “snow monkey” was filmed mounting at least two female Sika deer, much larger than itself.
Without penetration, the young monkey makes sexual movements while riding on the does’ backs on Japan’s Yakushima Island.
Without penetration, the young monkey makes sexual movements while riding on the does’ backs on Japan’s Yakushima Island.
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